am i doing it right?? -continued

Do u change the parameters often. If yes stop taking decision by yourself, let the one who loves u lot take the decision, say ur mother. If u are confident in ur decision and u do'nt change the parameters often, and u are sure u get the result in time. You can stand till u get it.

for any problem which needs solution with in certain period, waiting does'nt make any sense, u must choose the best option u have.

eg) marriage : u cant wait till your age is 60 for a kind of man/woman u like in looks and character.

for the problems that doesn't have any time frame, u can wait for ever.

eg) buying a Benz : waiting for 5 years, u may get a better one than what u thought of.

when u ask this to a farmer, in his term he will give an answer like this.
there is time frame for selling a xyz fruit or vegetable, till a certain time the value of the xyz raises but after that, even if the market prices are high the product xyz's price depreciates, if u lose the time frame you'll end up with nothing

"being too picky" while u are sure what u get is worth the wait. there's nothing to worry, about (others). when u win and u are on the stage they will be saying "I already know that ur selection will be excellent" or "I know that u are the one blessed with intelligence to get the best and make me proud" or "I am the one who helped him/her to go for the best."

so ignore them but analyse the points they give in justifying their advice. check it with the parameters you've set, if there is nothing to do with the points, forget them.